MATURE MAN
All women happen sooner or later, to have a heel for this type of male: the teacher at school, the teacher of some sports, musician, etc.. The old man is striking because it is larger, has more experience, is just more mature and knows more about us. We think it can teach us a lot and who knows how to manage a relationship much better than a twenty undecided. And we also think that it can be very funny in the most intimate areas because he knows, or at least should know, a pack (at least with more experience of life). In addition, the mature man is also the transgression, as it would put us in a socially ambiguous situation and not fully accepted by most people.
RISK LEVEL: 7. The danger is there in case of success is the failure of a potential relationship with the adult. The case of failure is more serious: the crush on the man becomes mature idealization of the male in question, and you can fake that torments you with this picture for a long time. In the case report, however, the danger is often in the fall of this idealization. The man thought that experienced, mature, ready to teach you and give you real life lessons is often only one. The story falls and you find that your man-Mature is not like George Clooney or Richard Gere. If so you may wonder how it was possible that a single man as he had arrived at that age, common to find the answer and, in most cases, will not be what you expected. The youth turns out to be admired in him, at a later time, just a childish not required. And then, let's talk about: the wind at a certain age is less and performance is weakened.
A positive aspect of the encounter-relationship with the adult, however, and there is a reconsideration of the male elements of his generation.
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